Heart Center: The Power of Will and Self-Esteem

Biologically, the Heart Center (also known as the Ego Center) is related with the heart muscles, stomach, gallbladder, and thymus gland. It is a motor center, meaning it generates energy. Despite the fact that it has only four gates , the Heart Center is incredibly complex and deeply influential.

The Role of the Heart Center

The Heart Center governs willpower and self-esteem. It influences how we create bonds within our communities and families, as well as our ability to commit and keep promises. Those with a defined Heart Center have a consistent sense of worthiness and the willpower to work hard for others, expecting fair rewards in return. However, this motor does not run indefinitely—it requires rest, much like the heartbeat itself, which beats and then pauses before the next contraction.

The Influence of an Open Heart Center

Interestingly, 65% of humanity has an open Heart Center. This means that the majority of people experience fluctuations in self-worth and willpower. When their efforts are acknowledged, their self-esteem rises, but when they face criticism or indifference, it plummets. This cycle can lead to an exhausting pattern of seeking external validation.

People with an open Heart Center are often prone to overcompensating, working beyond their limits, and making promises they struggle to keep. They may feel compelled to prove themselves, whether in their careers, relationships, or personal pursuits. However, this behavior is unsustainable and can lead to physical and emotional exhaustion.

Overpromising

A key lesson for those with an open Heart Center is to avoid making promises impulsively. Their willpower is inconsistent, meaning commitments made in the heat of the moment may later feel overwhelming. 

For instance, consider someone who receives a favor. They may feel an immediate urge to reciprocate, often offering more than they can realistically provide. This tendency can create stress and imbalance in relationships.

The Open Heart in Decision Making

Let’s take a real-world example: purchasing a car. A person with a defined Heart Center may desire a particular car but, upon realizing it exceeds their budget, they will simply move on or select a more affordable option. Conversely, someone with an open Heart Center may feel pressured to prove their ability to afford the car, even if it means financial strain. This reflects the broader challenge they face: distinguishing between what they truly need and what they feel they must achieve to gain approval.

Interestingly, many of the world’s richest people have an open Heart Center. 

• Bill Gates (3/5 Generator) has Gate 26, the Gate of the Egoist, which gives him a natural talent for sales—though inconsistently due to his open Ego Center.

• Elon Musk (3/5 Manifesting Generator) has Gate 40, the Gate of Alloneness and Love of Work. In an open Heart Center, this can lead to unpredictable work patterns.

• Jeff Bezos (1/4 Splenic Projector) has Gates 40 and 21 activated, reinforcing themes of control, independence, and relentless work ethic.

  
  

Finding Balance with an Open Heart Center

For those with an open Heart Center, the focus should not be on proving themselves to others but rather on recognizing their inherent worth. Their wisdom lies in discerning the value of people, promises, and material things without succumbing to external pressure.

Instead of striving to prove their worth through excessive effort, they should trust in their inner authority and follow their strategy to make aligned decisions. By doing so, they can protect their well-being and develop a healthier relationship with work, commitments, and self-esteem.